How To Make Difficult Decisions Easy

A few months ago I read a book by Paul Fischer called “A Kim Jong-Il Production.” It followed the story of two South Korean filmmakers and lovers who were kidnapped by Kim Jong-Il after their divorce and brought back together in North Korea for the betterment of North Korean cinema. It’s a harrowing, emotional, and often times unbelievable story but a literary adventure I highly recommend. From it, I pulled a quote that I’ve thought about when developing my own stories. This quote is from a description Fischer wrote on the term ‘seed’ used in the making of Korean cinema:

“The seed was a film’s main nucleus and ideological kernel. As a farmer selects and sews a good seed intended well to reap good fruit, so the seed of a film shall be chosen correctly and its depiction deepened on that basis to produce an excellent work.”

I look at the seed as akin to our identity; the momentous footprint we want to leave in our wake, or the ways in which our presence directly affects the world around us. What is my seed, I wonder.

Thinking about the bigger picture – my seed – helps me focus on day to day, minute to minute ideas. If I remember what my goals are, or the purpose I wish to put forward, it becomes easier for me to make those sometimes difficult decisions that cross my path in daily life. Not knowing or having any idea about what my seed is, however, makes these day to day decisions a lot more difficult.

It’s taken me years to really sort out my seed. I’ve discovered and continue to uncover passions of mine, but putting them into action is where the challenge comes in. It’s important to focus on your passion, your spark, your interest, and to take steps toward it.

In simple terms, my seed is empowerment. It is discovery, curiosity, fear, and forward motion. Is what I’m doing empowering to myself and to others and, if not, what are the steps I can take to get there? When I determine my next step, I ask myself: is this right for me and am I moving forward? I think of Brian’s post about making a 1% effort every day, and I ask myself if I’m doing so and how can I improve on this? Am I curious about something and do I attempt to rectify this curiosity? What am I scared of and how do I combat these fears? The first part of the question is the recognition and the second part is the action. These are my seeds, my main nucleus, and ideological kernel. What are yours?


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